Monday, December 05, 2011

I'm SAHD


As some of you already know there is a change at our house.  My wife has started working full time allowing me to finish my degree requirements (namely an 800 internship).  This means I am now SAHD (stay at home dad).  In fact today is my first day in this role.  I will admit that I was a bit apprehensive about the switch.  I assumed that not being the provider, not having a title, no sense of accomplishment or contribution etc. would have a negative impact on me. 

Then the Spirit spoke to me in the way that he often does- via scripture.  As I prepared for my first day the words of Colossians 3:23 ran through my head repeatedly, "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men."  A new revelation came over me.  I am as much a provider as I was in my career (maybe more so).  Now I provide structure, discipline, education, and guidance.  I have many titles including tutor, mentor, chef, (ok, and maid...better yet butler).  As far as a sense of accomplishment I have done more by 12:00 today than I did in a typical work day.  That's ok though- this job comes with a scheduled nap time.  My contribution is to my wife and children.  So, I approach this new role with a positive attitude (which is what the Spirit intended no doubt).  I am working at this as unto the Lord.  I will keep you posted.

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